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We get you out of the house. And plans out of the group chat.

Weekly karaoke. Regular ceilidhs, pub crawls, and singles nights. Student events during term time, and big day parties that bring the whole city together. We do the planning. You just turn up.

No group chats. Event announcements only.

Life gives us a thousand reasons to stay in. We create the reasons to go out.

We're IRL, a local events company. Whether you arrived in town last week or grew up along Cowley Road, we plan the day parties and nights out - and everything in between - to help people find their people and make Oxford feel a little more like home.

Come for the fun.
Stay for the people.

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Flat 4BPriya, Tom, Ama, you
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Priyawe should actually do something this week
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Tomyesss 100%
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Amafree thurs? maybe
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IRL OxfordKaraoke at Big Society. Thursday. Bring the whole flat.
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Tomok fine we're going 😂
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see you there x

The group chat said we should do something.

It always does. Then the thread goes quiet and nothing happens. So we stopped waiting for the group chat and started doing something about it.

This is the something.

Photo slot: home-mosaic-1.jpgA full room at an IRL night
Photo slot: home-mosaic-2.jpgTwo people laughing outside a pub with colourful leis and a toy guitar
Photo slot: home-mosaic-3.jpgTwo people smiling in Date IRL glasses
Photo slot: home-mosaic-4.jpgPeople gathered around a fire outdoors at night
Photo slot: home-mosaic-5.jpgA group posing together in formal outfits at an indoor event
Photo slot: home-mosaic-6.jpgA crowd chatting and smiling at an indoor event

Since April 2025 we've put on 140+ events for 8,000+ people on our channels, with 450+ at our biggest day out. It all started in one back garden.

Photo slot: founder-bbq.jpgThe first IRL back-garden BBQ, April 2025
April 2025. The first one.

It started with a BBQ.

I arrived in Oxford in 2022 after finishing graduate school. It's a brilliant city, but because I wasn't connected to the university, it took me a while to find my people.

So in April 2025, not wanting to spend my birthday alone, I threw myself a party and opened my back garden for a BBQ and invited strangers from across the city.

It was a huge success, and I made new friends. Suki came that day, and she never left.

Mitch Founder

What struck me at that first BBQ was how many people had the same story. New to Oxford or here for years, it didn't matter. Everyone wanted a better social life, and nobody knew where to start. So we kept throwing BBQs until we accidentally created a company.

Suki Co-founder
Photo slot: home-plan.jpgPeople chatting together in a warmly lit indoor venue

Planning a birthday, a hen do, corporate event, or a society formal?

Tell us what you're planning. We'll find the venue and sort the rest.

Photo slot: home-partner.jpgThe Big Society exterior and outdoor seating at night

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We bring the crowd, the programming, and the promotion. You provide the space, the stall, or the sponsorship.

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